Benjamin Snuggs GRIZZELL
Joel DILLARD
Sarah L. GILLESPIE

Husband-1:  Benjamin Snuggs GRIZZELL
Birth:  13 Aug 1829, Alabama
Death:  5 Dec 1874, St. Louis, St. Louis City, Missouri       
Burial:  
Father:  Elon Snuggs GRIZZELL
Mother:  Frances Langston COZERT

Marriage-1:      25 Jun 1850, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
Divorce:                 aft 1865, Mississippi

Husband-2:  Joel DILLARD
Birth:  May 1817, Haywood Co., Tennessee
Death:  1900, Pontotoc, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi  
Burial:  
Father:  Thomas DILLARD  
Mother:  Hannah LAMBERT 

Marriage-2:      8 Aug 1872, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi

Wife:  Sarah L. GILLESPIE
Birth:  Apr 1833, Albemarle Co., Virginia 
Death:  1901, Pontotoc, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
Burial:  
Father:  Orian Hiram GILLESPIE
Mother:  Mary "Polly" BOWLES

Children - Marriage-1:   
1. Mary GRIZZELL, b: 1851, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
2. Hiram Louis GRIZZELL, b: 30 Aug 1853, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
                                       d: 9 Jun 1946, San Diego, San Diego Co., California
                                    bur: Mt. Hope Cemetery, San Diego, San Diego Co., California
3. William Liles GRIZZELLE, b: 1 Oct 1856, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
4. Jesse L. GRIZZELL, b: 6 Nov 1859, Calhoun Co., Mississippi
5. Sarah Belle "Sallie" GRIZZELL (Perryman), b: 10 Mar 1862, Calhoun Co., Mississippi
                                                                   d: 7 Feb 1887, DeSoto Co., Mississippi
6. Nancy Virginia "Nannie" GRIZZELL, b: 14 Apr 1865, Calhoun Co., Mississippi

Children - Marriage-2:   
1. Joel P. DILLARD, b: 24 Feb 1874, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
                              d: aft 1900, Pontotoc, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
2. Adline DILLARD, b: Feb 1877, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
                             d: aft 1900, Pontotoc, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi
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Notes:    

1860 Federal Census Data (M653_0578, Page 80), Calhoun Co., Mississippi,
                                                                                                                  Enumeration Date: 8-Aug-1860, Family #367

By 1870, Benjamin and Sarah had divorced and he had remarried.  She and the children were living with her parents.

1880 Federal Census Data (T9_0662, Page 25A), Pontotoc Co., Mississippi,
                                                                                Enumeration District: 164, Enumeration Date: 1-Jun-1880, Family #8

1900 Federal Census Data (T623_0825, Page 27A), Friendship, Pontotoc Co., Mississippi,
                                                                                    Enumeration District: 85, Enumeration Date: 2-Jun-1900, Family #18

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Sources: 
1) Death - Husband #1: St. Louis City Missouri Vital Statistics - Deaths, Vol. 6B, Page 98